Archive for September, 2009

Being Pert

30Sep09

I’ve obviously managed too many projects. I’m trying to keep a light touch (ideally no touch) on this one – but I always feel I have to give some paternal advice where I think it might be needed, and hope that it might help. B was struggling, trying to work out with her mother, if […]


how much should there be at a wedding? Copious amounts, obviously. The potential opportunities are almost limitless and being blessed with friends and neighbours with musical leanings (and I mean professional & semi-professional quality here) then we should be able to summon up a pool of talent able to last the whole night long. Hooray, […]


I have only been to one wedding fair and I don’t think that really counts. I wasn’t meant to go along, but C had to get back home for something sporty and important which meant B and MOB couldn’t go in the same car and anyway Bridesmaid 1 (BM1) also wanted to go… confused – […]


Sweatshops

25Sep09

I return from an overnight trip to Reading to find that the house has been transformed into a third world sweat shop. A veritable hive of activity greets me as I enter: hisses of steam rise from the iron, the electric sewing machine whirrs, scissors snip at fabric. The low paid (alright unpaid) workforce is […]


A spoiler…

22Sep09

Did I mention that back in prehistory FOB & MOB got married? Although the last 25 years have shot past (well let’s be precise – the last 24 years and 3 months) I can still remember our wedding day like it was yesterday. OK I can’t remember yesterday as well I as should for a […]


Where on Earth?

21Sep09

Right, so we know when the wedding will take place. At least that’s one important thing sorted. Now other major decisions that need to be taken are where will the wedding be, who will be the witnesses, and who will be invited (all major issues with the potential for everlasting grudges). Where in the world […]


The big picture

20Sep09

I am learning, weddings appear to be evolving on a daily basis – or maybe I’m getting old and am no longer able to adapt to the fast pace of change in the modern world. No sooner had the wedding been announced when I was informed the date had changed. Had they reconsidered their hasty […]


I should have started this a year ago, if not before then, but better late than never. Having already planned and executed one wedding I’m experienced. I know what’s needed – venue, catering, transport, cameras, guests… so I knew what I was letting myself in for when daughter (let’s call her B… as in Bridezilla) […]


All this is my brother’s fault, or maybe my mother’s.

Maybe I could write a blog about the forthcoming wedding from my unique perspective.